Morning hikes on trails surrounding The Golden Door spa in California are a
highlight of my annual visit as a guest presenter for Spirited Walker Week. As
I climbed the slopes this month, it was clear, as always, that human walkers
aren’t the only travelers on this network of trails. Each day bought fresh
deposits of animal droppings that reminded me of a break-through moment I described
in Healing
Walks for Hard Times. I think the story bears repeating. I hope you'll agree.
What You See is What You Get
Whether
your journey leads you over city sidewalks or rural trails,
it’s inevitable that sooner or later your steps will lead to a deposit of
something unpleasant at your feet. If you’re aware and mindful, you’ll sidestep
it, avoiding a direct encounter with the residue left behind by another
traveler on your path. It’s like the once popular bumper sticker proclaimed, in
language bold and explicit: “Shit happens.”
In
teaching walking workshops, I’ve had opportunities to
contemplate that expression on trails across the United States. Some have been
beautiful and rural, some as common as a parking lot. Participants in these
walks confront it, too. Frequently, I introduce the Sensory Scan focusing
technique to enhance awareness of surroundings. By giving attention to what can
be seen, heard, smelled, or felt, walkers get present—in the moment and in the
setting.
What did you notice?” I ask when we
pause after a few minutes of Sensory Scan walking. “What did you senses
reveal?”
"The
sound of the breeze rustling in the trees,” someone may say. “The smell of sage
in the desert.
Eventually, the comments shift. Someone
clears a throat and cautiously mentions the “droppings” on the path. “Did you
step in it?” I ask. With the laughter comes awareness. We all encounter
unpleasantness on life’s path, but maybe, if you are being mindful, you don’t
have to carry it home.
The
metaphor expanded a few years ago when I followed a tai
chi master on a silent, mindfulness hike in the desert bluffs of southern
California. The route led up a gentle mountain trail and wound down to a shaded
labyrinth. All along the mountain trail, dark droppings affirmed the popularity
of this path with the local coyote population. As I mulled the presence of this
visual blight, a smile began to form. Those wily coyotes had deposited a lesson
at my feet: What lay on the trail was simply the waste product of substances
that once provided food and fuel. Stripped of nutrients, the coyotes discarded
the waste and left it behind. The metaphor followed me into the labyrinth where
my footsteps gradually guided me to a subtle recognition of the similarities of
shape in the coils of the sacred labyrinth and those of a human digestive
track.
‘Leave it on the trail!” my mind
shouted in delight as the insight settled into my cells. “Use it and then let
it go.”
On any
path, an encounter with scat at my feet reminds me to discard what no longer
sustains and nourishes me. This is not an excuse for irresponsible pet owners
who ignore sanitation policies. But rather than dwell on outrage or
indignation, it offers me an alternative perspective on a natural phenomenon.
On the mountain trails I love to travel, the droppings affirm the rhythms of
life, of taking in and letting go.
Hanging
on is a hindrance to moving on. It’s true that anger, fear, bitterness, and
sorrow are vital and useful at times. Caution, stubbornness, persistence, and
pain serve a purpose, too. Take what you need from life’s emotions and
experiences. Let them guide you in knowing what is important. Then, know when
it’s time to walk away. Only you can decide when the nutrient value of an
emotion or experience is depleted. Walking helps.
Excerpted
from “Moving On” Chapter, Healing Walks for Hard Times
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